
Henry Lo, a parenting specialist from Hong Kong, is certified as a Montessori instructor. He now holds classes and seminars to teach techniques he developed under the banner of “stable parenting.” To raise positive and confident children, Lo believes parents must first stabilize their own emotions and show love.
To show how to respond to a difficult parenting situation, Henry Lo acts like a child who likes to push boundaries. In his class, he teaches parents that to raise a positive, stable and confident child, they need to first work through their own emotions. This is what he calls “stable parenting.”
Henry Lo
Parenting coach
After calming and stabilizing the adult, then we can talk about parenting. If we can do that, the adult can not only moderate their own mood, but can use their composure to help stabilize an emotional child.
Originally from Hong Kong, Lo is certified as a Montessori instructor for children up to 6 years old. He got into early childhood education after going to studying in the U.S. at 18 and becoming an English teacher. He realized that young children need to be taught more than just language. Their entire personalities need to be cultivated.
Henry Lo
Parenting coach
When I started with the Montessori method, I learned the different developmental stages and children’s needs during each one. The kinds of methods we can use to help a child develop. When a child exhibits challenging behaviors, I look at where they are in terms of development to determine what method could help them through it.
Through holding classes, parenting seminars, teacher trainings and even publishing children’s and parenting books, Lo shares what he has learned about parenting. And in the process of helping others, he’s found it to be therapeutic for himself, too.
Henry Lo
Parenting coach
From so many years of teaching the stable parenting method, I think what I’ve gained the most is the ability to connect more to my inner self. By understanding myself better, I can better understand children and parents. The greatest reward I’ve gotten from striving to help others has been helping myself.
Lo is a father himself and uses his methods with his own child. By passing on his parenting philosophies, he has become even more certain of his career choice.
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來自香港的親職教育專家羅寶鴻,擁有國際蒙特梭利認證導師證照,現在他常透過課程以及家長講座分享他的安定教養學,他認為要教養出正向有自信的孩子,家長要先能夠安定自己的情緒,給孩子更多的愛。
回應讓父母苦惱的教養難題,一下子又扮演著愛挑戰規範的孩子,親職教育專家羅寶鴻生動的課程,吸引許多父母來上課,他認為要教養出正向、穩定、自信的孩子,父母要先面對及處理自己的情緒,就是所謂的安定教養學。
[[香港新住民 羅寶鴻]]
“建立成人內心的安穩、安定之後,再來去做教養,能夠這樣子的話,大人不單指內心能夠先釋放情緒、緩和情緒,也能夠用這個安定的心,來去幫助那個有情緒的孩子安穩下來。”
來自香港的羅寶鴻,擁有AMI國際蒙特梭利協會,0到3歲以及3到6歲認證導師。會一腳跨入幼教領域,是因為十八歲到美國念書,後來從事美語教學,發現零到六歲的孩子,需要的不只是美語,而是全方位的人格培養。
[[香港新住民 羅寶鴻]]
“在開始學蒙特梭利的時候,我了解到孩子的不同發展階段,有什麼內在發展需求。我們可以用什麼方式,來幫助他們成長,在孩子出現一些挑戰性的行為的時候,我也看到因為孩子的發展成熟度,所以可以用一些什麼方法,來幫助他們緩和下來。”
他透過實體課程,家長講座及師資訓練,甚至出版了繪本與教養著作,分享所見所聞的親子教養問題,同時也在這些分享過程當中,幫助了別人,也療癒了自己。
[[香港新住民 羅寶鴻]]
“這麼多年的提倡安定教養裡面,我覺得我得到最多的是,我越來越能夠連接到
自己的內在,深入自己的內在,更了解自己的同時,也更了解孩子,更了解家長,這是我為了想要幫助別人,結果幫助到自己最大的收穫。
羅寶鴻也是一個孩子的父親,他也將這樣的教養方式,應用在自己的親子關係上,透過教育理念的傳遞,也更加篤定,要走在幼兒教育的這條路上。
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